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“Something’s wrong with me..” “My libido’s broken!” ⠀ Two common phrases I hear from women often. While this kind of feeling can be caused by a mixture of different issues the first place I start is- ⠀ “Well do you like the sex you DO have?” ⠀ Especially with women coming from more conservative sexual backgrounds religiously or socially- we are taught overtly and subtly to disconnect from our bodies. ⠀ Our bodies cause sin and can’t be trusted, so how the heck would you know what you like in the bedroom?? ⠀ Sometimes it’s lack of communication between partners, sometimes it’s a disconnect between brain and body, and sometimes it’s shame about owning your sexual likesu002Fdislikes and sharing that! ⠀ If you’re thinking something is wrong with your sexual desire, I’d first ask myself “do I like the sex I’m currently having?” ⠀ ⠀ _____________